you ever taken time to think of the
reasons why that guy dumped you? Why
he doesn't like you? Why that guy dimmed
his love for you? Why your guy changed all
over a sudden? Why guys don’t fall for
you? Why you are remaining single year to
year?
The 12 REASONS are:
1. YOU LIE TOO MUCH - Guys aren't
silly. They can tell when they're being
lied too. Don't try to hide who you are
because you think a guy won't like the real
you. You can't fool somebody forever and
once the truth comes out he'll never trust
you again. So be yourself to some guys
who date you.
2. YOU DON’T APPRECIATE THE LITTLE
THINGS HE DOES FOR YOU - Some guys are
horrible with expressing their feelings, but
they try to in their own little ways.
Sometimes it's something small like picking
up a cupcake because they know you'll like
it. Lots of times an act like this goes
unnoticed, If a guy is trying to show you he
cares and you don't see it he'll think you
don't care or you don’t love him.
Appreciate his efforts please.
3. YOU TEXT & MAKE CALLS TOO MUCH -
Guys like to feel important. If you're on
your phone the whole time during dinner
they'll feel like you don't care about them.
The solution is to turn your phone off so
you can give all your attention to him.
Seriously, nothing is so important to having
to always be
texting. Think about it and stop it.
NOTE: Some of these reasons are vice-
versa. Some of the guys out there also do
this. They should also borrow a leaf from
these tips.
4. YOU’RE A PARTY ANIMAL - Guys like to
have fun, but they also like to chill out. If
you're going out to bars and clubbing like
thrice a week, soon your guy will get tired
of it. First of all it’s not developmental at
all and it’s wastage of time if overdone. So
a guy will hate and dump you for that. If
you want to be in a committed relationship
you have to give up the crazy nights out. I
am not saying your never party, but do it
once in a while.
5. SHOWING THAT YOU KNOW
EVERYTHING - Women are smart; we all
know this, but some women think they
know everything. Nobody likes a know-it-
all. When you're constantly trying to prove
to a guy that he's wrong it'll eat away at
him. Even if you know you're right about
something let it slide. It's okay to let
someone else have the glory
6.YOU ARE NOT INDEPENDENT ENOUGH -
If whenever life gets rough you run to
parents for help, it'll turn a guy off. It's
good to have a support system, but if
you're calling your mom because you
broke a nail, because your guy never paid
all the necessary bills, if he left insufficient
money for launch at home, if he came back
late, If he never ate the food
you cooked… it shows you won't be able
to handle the bigger problems when they
come. You should stop acting like a baby
7. YOU DON’T WORK BUT YOU WANT TO
SPEND LIKE A BILLIONIARE - If you want
to shop all day long, you better have your
own money to do it. Guys don't like having
to sweat all day. Many ladies sometimes
like competing, they like buying things that
they won’t use simply because they don’t
suit their standards. They like to poses it
and full up their
wardrobe simply because she saw her
closest female friend with it. Guys dislike
this; they will dump you because of being a
big spender.
8. YOU NEED TO CHANGE HIM - Guys like
who they are. They are how they are for a
reason, basically for a living. If he's a
horrible dresser you can buy him a new
shirt, but don't force anything on him. If
he likes wearing pair of Jeans, T- shirts and
sneaks, that is his style… Don’t try to
change him to start putting on suits that he
is not used to. Just love him the way he is.
If you aren't happy with who he is, find
somebody else that makes you happy. But
remember some on
can be so stylish but when he has no true
love for you at heart.
9.YOU NEVER DECIDE WHERE TO EAT
DINNER FROM - If you're going out to
dinner just make a choice and stick with it.
Guys don't like making a decision and then
changing it and then changing it again. If
you want to go to more than one place,
there's always next weekend.
10. YOU ACT LIKE THE WORLD IS ENDING -
There's nothing worse for a guy than when
a girl acts like the world is ending because
her favorite salad dressing was out of stock
when she went grocery shopping. Even if it
means a lot to you try to let it go. Guys
just blow things off and hope you will to.
11. BEING SO FRIENDLY TO HIS FRIENDS -
Guys don't make new friends often. The
friends they have are for life. When you try
to step in between a guy and his buddies
all you're doing is creating a barrier
between the two of you. A guy may dump
you because of your being so close to his
friends. He will feel insecure; he will get
jealous and starts losing the trust hence
leading to dumping you and even hating
his friends for life. Don’t be into his friends
so much; don’t communicate with them
behind his back unless he is okay with it.
Talk to them mostly when he is around
with you.
12. BEING A CHEAT - Guys hate ladies who
think they are clever (e.g deleting chats or
call logs before meeting him. Once he
caught u, the trust will be lost, remember
nothing stays hidden forever.
