he needs to portray attractive, that is, good
physical appearance, good clothings, good
behavioural pattern and most importantly,
financial stability.
As a matter of fact, low self esteem guys often
have misplaced priorities especially when it
comes to getting a lady. Below are the
desperation they display;
1. He Claims Mr. Handsome
You see him uploading pictures at regular
intervals on nairaland, facebook and it likes.
Some will even go as far as creating a thread
asking people to rate them. Hugwash !! This is a
display of low self esteem.
2 Unnecessary Show Off
Because it wants to show off at the ATM point,
and other places, he will make sure those ladies
on the queue see the sum of money he withdrew.
Also, in a situation where he just purchase a new
phone, "person no go hear word again". This is
period where @ the sight of any babe, he shows
off the new asset.
3. Hit Gym for body built
Good body physic is the dream of every guy but
some are just so silly that they enter into the gym
with the mentality of " I want to gym so that
ladies will fall for me"
4. He Borrows Everything
He borrows jewels, clothes and wrist watches
from his rich friend the moment he wants to
approach a lady. Some even go as far as
borrowing someone else's car to woo babes
5. Claims false relationship with top
celebrities
Because he was privilege to take a photograph
with Oritse Femi, social media no go hear word
again. He goes about uploading the picture on
facebook, twitter, instagram, badooo, nairaland
and so on. This is a bid to make ladies see him
as a big boy
6. He Becomes Father Christmas
I mean what's the big deal telling a lady what
you can afford to buy for her and what you
cannot ? I have seen the case of a dude who took
a lady on a date and spent all on her . When it
was time for them to depart, he handed the lady
N2, 000 and had to trek home (one hour walk).
This is nothing but low self esteem
7. Praise the Lady even If she does silly things
This is common to ass / butt licking guys landing
praise on ladies who display stupidity @ the
highest level. To add salt to injury, they give silly
shout out to them without a cogent reason why
they are doing such.
8. Excessive Calls, Smses and pms
There's a whole lot of difference between
showing love and troubling a lady's life.. He
calls unnecessarily, sends unwanted messages,
pms and begs her to please reply her pms/
whatsapp message. This is pure rubbish cos you
need not do all these poo before a lady develop
interest in you
9. He becomes Ladies Puppets
I can go angry for lady when she's yet to accept
my proposal. However, the rate at which guys
present themselves because they want to win a
lady's heart is so annoying. They will send
recharge card to her and still beg her to please
call them with it. I mean what height of low self
esteem is that ?
