I am a 29-year-old man and dating a 28-year-old lady. We are both lawyers; just out of national youth service and I really love her. Though she is beautiful, but she is very loose... I mean, once a man touches her in any sensitive part, she succumbs. She has even told me that she was once lured into le$bianism. She said she was a vir-gin but after pestering her; she opened up that she slept with a guy but claimed that it was mere fondling and not real $*x.
Recently, I asked her to tell me whether she slept with any man during our youth service and she initially denied it. Knowing how emotionally frail she could be, I pressed further and she said that she met only one man and that they were both n*ked but that there was no $*x. [Laughs]!
This is difficult to believe and I am afraid. Though she asked me to forgive her, I am afraid to go ahead. What do I do? - A disturbed guy sent this message to Kemi.
Below is her reply to him:
Not only is your girlfriend insincere, she is also playing on your emotions. You still believed she is a vir-gin? I think she is hiding so many secrets from you, she knows that if she marries you, you will discover she is not a vir-gin and had slept with many men.
Hiding under the cloak of an unstable emotion is a device to whip up sentiments from you. If you prod further, she could tell you about other men. I think you are enchanted and so blind to see through her. But she is not a good woman to be married to. Even if you forgive her, start looking for an alternative lady to be your wife.
