I met this lady on a social app. She friend-zoned me for some 3 months though I made her realize my intention.
She keeps disturbing me with lengthy chats. She can chat for 24 hours. And that alone was getting on my nerves, that I started snubbing her on chat. I only respond once in a while.
I think she noticed it, she changed her tactics and started flirting..talking dirty and sending me funny pictures of her.
I took it as an invitation, so I brought up the issue of dating again. She said we should meet and discuss it.
We set a date for the date. In the morning of the set date, on whatsapp she told me she is coming with a friend of her. I thought she feared for her security and was trying to play safe...I agreed they should come together.
We went to Cumbaland (Indian restaurant)...chop all the choppables (Chop my money). We still continued the discussion, she ended up not giving me any tangible answer.
2 weeks later, she said the weekend will be boring for her, she will be home alone, she said she wants to come to my house. Chaii my head bounced. I was like chaii...this is the opportunity.... On the Saturday morning when I went out to pick her at the bus stop close to my house, I saw a lady beside her, I thought the lady was just a passerby...to found out she was the same friend she brought on the first day (her makeup confused me). They came, I ran my generator for 8 hours they spent with me glued to my DSTV watching telemundo/MTV. She wouldn't even talk to me.
I later invited her to my inner room where I made my move, she refused and started cursing. So I don't want it to turn to a rape scenario, I let her go.
Later on whatsapp, I asked why she keeps bringing her friend, she said she cant go anywhere without her.
I said OK...This bad thought just came to my mind. I knew I had nothing to loose again. I have spent already (thats a loss on its own). Nothing can be worse.
So I intentionally invited her over to my house this time...as usual she brought her friend which was part of my plan.
When opportunity presented itself, I collected her friends number. I took a risk, I told her not to tell my girl. To my dismay she cooperated with me, I pinged her on whatsapp, she responded and we started flowing just neutrally.
The next time we agreed to go to the beach. I was very surprised to see this girl dressed sexily, even over dressed more than my girl. My eyes stayed glued on her that my girl nearly caught me. May be she did, may be not.
In the night I buzzed her and I told her how sexy she was that day. I told her I felt like kissing and foundling her that day.
She said "you should have done it in front of your girl" jokingly.
I said "Do you know my girl doesn't stop us", she said "Hmmmm"
Shockingly she said "I know there is nothing between you guys"
I was shocked. So my girl told her friend she had nothing for me.
I told the lady, why is she doing this to me? She hasn't given me any answer and when I make any move, she bark like dog. What does she want, shes confusing me....
In short, na so her friend agreed to come to my house alone ooo. It was on a rainy Saturday. She barely enters my house when we started the "You know what " (close your eyes).
I was at my office one day when I saw pings...my girl started blasting...
Why are men like this?
You are a dog
You are not different from others..
Men will always be men ...blah blah blah..
So if u want to date someone, its my friend that you think its right for you to date. You cheated with my friend.
I said "Madam, Let me ask you a question".
"Were we dating?"
She said "No"
I said "So whats your definition of cheating?"
She said "but u have been disturbing me for a while now"
I said "For a while? ooh and you are proud of that? And have you given me any tangible answer?"
She said "why are you impatient?"
I just told her to get a lawyer...she cursed and changed DP to funny images about guys...U know what they do na...
I found out that she read her friends whatsap chat and got to know we were f*ckng.
Guys....Am i really at fault?
