Some of una get ear for
decoration?
You see this habit of instantly
moving in with him, just because
he got you pregnant, make una
stop am abeg!
Please stop this ugly habit of
living with men that have not
married you. Stop it! Honestly, It is
highly disappointing and terribly
demotes the pride of womanhood
and truth be told, it only aids
some of these men to keep
misbehaving. . . . . .you desire
changes from our men? Then my
dear the changes should start
from us, with our dignity, integrity,
pride and carriage. I don tire to
dey preach the same matter over
and over again. . . . .Let's stop
this trending thing of moving in
and living with "baby daddy" when
you ain't legally married. Honestly
it makes no sense.
The very minute you consent to
unprotected sex, you
automatically make yourself
succeptible to whatever the
outcome of your actions are. Stop
crying wolf that your baby daddy
whom you're cohabiting with, is
cheating on you despite having a
child/children from him. ..
..Excuse me, nobody pointed a
gun at your head, and dragged
you to his house, you went there
out of your own foolishness.
Besides, the last time i checked,
he never asked you to please be
his wife. It was YOU, who foolishly
decided to make mockery of your
senses and self esteem, thereby
subjecting yourself to all sorts of
rubbish. What sort of sick
reasoning is this? I mean, how
can a full fledged woman, love to
be a sextoy, baby factory, a chef
and an option by default
configuration, when you nor be
Diplomatic mumu?!
Gone are the days you tie a man
down with pregnancy, e no dey
work again. . . .your living with
him and giving him the benefits of
marriage on credit, does'nt
guarranty his marrying you....i
mean, why buy the cow when i
keep getting the milk for free?
If paradventure, he brings another
woman to the house to shag, right
in your presence, you have no
right whatsoever to throw
tantrums because its his house
and he is entitled to his privacy.
Anything you see there, since you
won't respect yourself enough to
do the needful, then deal with it!
Truth is, he is'nt legally married to
you, and until then, kindly respect
yourself abeg, go and get an
apartment for yourself and your
child, it does'nt in anyway, deter
him from taking full responsibility
for his child. Respect yourself
abeg abeg you want him to
respect you? Earn it, yes, earn his
damn respect!..
