People say Online relationship is not okay, I say it's the best thing that has ever happened to me, when I see my little boy and the mother, I blessed the day I logged onto my account and I sent a friend request to her.
The road has not been easy but I am so grateful for her and the support I had from my friends and well wishers.
Not all relationships turn into something fun, not all online relationship are bad and bloody, you might want to book a space because what I will be sharing on this topic is a story of a lifetime.
I love you sweetheart
I know you said its not time but people has to know, people have to know the joy you gave to me and it all started on FACEBOOK
Chapter 1
It all started on October 12th, 2011. I entered a 2go room, advice and relationships maybe, people were asking questions concerning relationship and stuffs and like a concerned fellow, I said my mind, but there was this question I answered with all honesty about how you know whether a guy loves you or is playing with you, since I was just out of a lying relationship, I requested for a private chat that when we were through she was free to delete my account, which was true, I related my story and she got what I wanted to say, we said our goodbyes but later I got to know she hasn't removed me from her list, she was in a relationship, and I didn't even ask her out. I gave my advice as only an acquaintance and I have moved on, I got into another relationship and it hit the rocks, we just say Hi, Hi whenever we are online and that's all, later I started calling her once in a while which was just an Hi, Hi call, I had nothing at the back of my mind, later she had a misunderstanding with her guy, I persuaded her to go back, always been there for her but nothing crossed my mind.
I had two more breakups and it hit me, She was no longer in a relationship and I am not in a relationship, why not ask her out?
What if she says No, what if she thinks am a stalker, lots of what ifs were running through my mind,
To worsen matters, my ex girlfriend started calling her and asking her how she was to me, i have not asked her out by then so she simply said nothing, I had to call and started apologising to a lady I have never seen and don't even know because I felt it was the right thing to do.
On July 12th, 2012, I met her online and I asked her to date me. Immediately she logged off. Shoot!!! She will never talk to me again, i just ruined a perfectly friendship, I went to bed sad, thinking about what I have done.
Day one, not logged in
Day two, not logged in
Day three, not logged in
Day 12, logged in
My heart almost jumped out of my mouth.
Since she hasnt given me a reply, I just locked up, she said Hi, I replied Hello and said nothing else
I logged off
Day one, I didn't log in
Day two, no log in
Day 7, log in
I met her online and I said Hi
She didn't reply but said I have heard.
Instantly I said, heard what? She said what I asked,
I almost jumped for joy, but I feigned ignorance and said I don't know what she was talking about. She said I asked her out and she has not replied since all this days because she has been thinking about it. And she is now ready to respond but she is still scared because of her past relationships and I said am not that kind of person but time will tell, she said no problem
We started out calling each other, couldn't get off the phone with each other (still do it up till now) until January 2nd 2013 when she said she is finally ready to see me,
What will I do, how will she look like, what's going to happen when we finally meet each other, what should I say
Then she said I should send her transport fare, i said I can't send any fare, that when I see her I will give it to her, she said no problem
When she was on her way (mind you, she has never been to Akure before), she took a wrong bus at Onitsha, and the said bus was taking her to Lagos instead of Akure.
I almost fainted and at the same time scared, she later told me to send her 3000 recharge card that she lost her money.
Guess what ran through my mind.
TBC......
