Love is sweet, relationship is sweet, dating is sweet, se*x is sweet but money makes is sweeter. What is love without money? What is relationship without money? How can you sustain a relationship without money? Money makes love sweeter, makes the world go round. You don’t expect me to date a girl
without spending on her, even if it is common N500 recharge card, i will buy for her. Not to talk of valentine gifts, christmas gifts and others. I wouldn’t advice any lady to go into a relationship just because of love alone, money should be involve. It is good to love likewise it is good to preserve the love with money and gifts.
Some of my reasons why ladies should not go into a relationship with a broke guy include….
1. You Need Support: Broke guys has nothing to offer you than se*x and a N100 recharge card. When you’re broke, you need to buy some stuffs in school or anything important and your parents are also broke, you should be able to ask your boyfriend to help you. Your boyfriend should be an assistance to you no matter what, even if you’re the independent type, you still need a guy to support you when you’re down. Broke guys are not ready to help but they are willing to advice you to forget that thing you want to buy. Some broke guys will even tell you to borrow the money and he would pay back. Please shine your eyes…
2. You Will Become ‘Ruth': You will be termed Ruth cos you’re not benefiting anything from the relationship. It is a Ruth that can die for her husband even if they live in under third mainland bridge, why would you stay in a relationship you’re not gaining other than hot se*x and ‘I Love You’. Why would you struggle with your boyfriend, he’s not even your husband yet.
3. He Can Break Up/Change Attitude/Misbehave If He Finally Becomes Big Boy: Yes, this happens a lot, and it is very bad when you see guys do such to girls who struggle with them from Day 1. I’ve seen this happened to a friend, her boyfriend started cheating on her because he now has some little change. My friend wasn’t good for him anymore, he was able have se*x with hot girls better than my friend because of money, my friend was nothing to him anymore. I still remembered how my friend struggled with this guy, she even paid this guy’s school fees, she fed this guy. Honestly, you can never know the true colour of a person when he’s poor, when the money comes then he/she would show you their real self. Be wise, don’t ever struggle with a guy…
4. He Would Become Nuisance To You: Dating him and he can’t afford a common N500 recharge card, if you ask him anything, he would find an excuse. If you want to eat KFC he would tell you to buy Suya so that you can economize. On Valentine’s day, he got you a chocolate, biscuit and greeting card that worth less than 1k. Don’t you think you will become irritated at some point, yet he loves to have se*x with you. When you demand, he finds excuses everytime, but when it comes to se*x he doesn’t joke with that. You love him though but you will get pissed at some point, he will then turn to a nuisance. You will be like ”If i ask him for recharge card now, he will be complaining”. Too bad…
5. You Will Become His Slut: All what he can offer you his 3 rounds of se*x, se*x, se*x and se*x. se*x with no gain, is a waste honestly, even prostitute charge money for se*x, no free se*x. Broke guys are ready to have se*x with you from morning to night, whispering ‘I Love You’. Don’t you ever say, ‘he’s my borfriend so he can have se*x with me’, if you are the type then prostitutes are better than you. After dating for 2-3 years, having se*x 10 times in a month and you finally break up, please what did you gain? Not even a common blackberry phone. When you’re in relationship please benefit from it materially, don’t just be stupid in love. I heard some broke guys are control freak, they even control their girlfriends, is this true? Girls are really suffering, stupid girls are the only one suffering tho.
Yes, i know everything is not about money but you and i know you can never sustain a relationship without money. Gone are those days of ‘Surulere’….
