excited to meet his beauty queen only to be shocked at what he sees.
The next day, you are crying, calling guys 'heartbreakers'. My darling, he did not break your heart; you did. Some come with the argument that he should look beyond the physical. The truth is that every man gets attracted, first to the physical. Leave yourself the way you are, let him get attracted to the real you so there won't be surprises when he meets with you. You are beautiful the way you are, stop wanting to be someone else. It's easier for others to love you when you first love and accept yourself. A woman who loves herself is captivating.
I once met one Nollywood actress whose pictures are all spotless. As she sat next to me when I received an award from Red Cross International, I couldn't believe what I saw; the two legs were filled with black spots. Even those you meet along the road, don't conclude yet until you see them shower. It's an era of deceit; pumped breasts, false lashes, edited skin, bronzer on face and body, waist training corsets under clothes...Wait until you see and touch.
That girlfriend of yours who you think is not beautiful is possibly more beautiful than what you are attracted to. Guys, stop getting carried away by social media pictures, with computer, a woman can get whatever breasts, skin colour, or curves she wants.
If your phone does the auto-edit, please make sure it's close to what you are in real life. Guys, if you want to see their picture, check tags by others, possibly during funeral ceremonies or while in a swimming pool.
